Sex magick and sensual self worship is an ancient practice and its roots are found in Tao, Tantra, & Paganism. So it’s vital we remember and implement these rituals, teachings, and practices to reconnect to our sacred life force and divine sexual essence, as a sweet balm and nectar for all the stigma and taboo our sexuality faces in the modern world.
We can use sex magick, and its precursor of self connection, body worship, pleasure expansion, embodied intimacy, trust, open hearted vulnerability, realness, deep presence to connect with the divine, through our bodies. To remember that they are not separate. That everything is pure eros; life force.
And Manifestation is simply the child our creative potential woven together with our inner magick powers from our Sex Witch and Cosmic Queen and the Source / Divine energy in which we dance.
We can become the mistresses of our desires when we remember our divine power. Yet we often forget the magick available to us when we reconnect to ourself & to our pleasure centres. To our turn ons. Our sensuality. Our wellspring of embodied love and connection to Source.
Coming back to the body is so simple yet so many of us don’t do it.
We don’t have time.
We have work to do.
Meals to cook.
Houses to clean.
But we must return to the body to connect intimately with the feminine. To drop in, back & down. We can’t access the feminine – nor our eros – through the mind, through “thinking” about it, through ascension by classic meditation.
We access the feminine, our pleasure, our creative portential through experience. Through body. Through movement. Through intuition. Through sex. Through the portals of our womb, our pussy. Our sacral and root chakras.
Traditional meditation encourages “out of the body” & transcendental states that we are convinced allow us to “reach other realms” keep us in our “higher” chakras (notice even the wording is thinly disguised hierarchy, compared to the “lower” chakras).
But the “higher” practices keep us engaged in our masculine energies. Stillness and transcendence keeps us tethered to that without; that outside of the feminine portals. They transport us away from the body.
And this is where conscious self pleasure comes in, and sex magick.
To descend. To explore your sexuality. To mix with magick. To truly drop into the body is brave new territory for many, and I appreciate it can feel scary. It can bring up fear. I know. I’ve been there. And this is why I have created the offerings that I have.
Gathering together to explore our feminine power, our sensuality and our erotic expression through self worship – and with other women – can immediately bring up walls and defence mechanisms. And I understand why.
We have grown up to be distrusting of our own sensuality and sexuality. We have grown up disconnected from our bodies, or have grown distant from them over the years. We might have experienced trauma or abuse. We might look at them and no longer see the young woman we once were, but a woman marked by her years and life stories. We might feel we’ve lost our sense of Sovereignty along the way and it feels too hard to work our way back.
But this is where you can begin your journey of reclamation. This is where you can meet yourself in safety, with other women, with similar experiences, body hang ups, butterflies in their tummy, a deep desire to connect to their feminine, their sexuality, with a deep knowing of “I want more….” “I am worthy of more….”.⠀
Sister you are so worthy of pleasure, of deep self-connection, and self-worship.
You’re invited to join me at CREATRIX on 2nd January to join a virtual three hour event of self worship, sisterhood, sharing of intentions, ritual, sensual embodiment, dance, and sex magick. Weaving together the power of manifestation with our eros.
© 2023 Fiona McCoss