Previously, I was the woman who used her sexuality for validation. I used men (& dishonoured my body) to make me feel good. I dressed & exhibited myself for another’s eye, rather than my own.
My heart & pussy were in the wrong place – they were outwardly focussed, not inwardly. I seduced others to stroke my ego, rather than learn how to seduce myself first. I sourced my sexual satisfaction from without, rather than within.
Yes there were boyfriends here & there, but I still wasn’t showing up as my true authentic, sexually empowered self. I was making all the right sounds, wearing all the right things, saying yes to all the new positions… and while it may have looked like I was having fun – it wasn’t all that great. I’d experience feelings of shame, of regret, of “what was that guy’s name again?”.
Does that resonate?
Now, I thrive in my sexual confidence. I know exactly what I want & how to ask for it, both in the bedroom & in life (you see, the erotic energy is the same = it’s life force).
I’ve worked on my unapologetic attitude, I deeply know my worth; I feel free to wear what I want – knowing I dress for myself first, and if another benefits, then that’s a bonus!
I love & honour my dark feminine sexuality; my Sacred Slut activates the hell out of me, she chooses my lingerie, my fishnets & stripper wear.
My seductress ignites my magnetism and I can feel myself turning heads down the street.
I embrace my Sensual Maiden for her beauty, feminine radiance, & her commitment to a life of pleasure.
My Wild Woman has been integrated in such fierce force that she allows me to try new things, experiment with authenticity, trust, & boundaries.
And my Tantric Queen allows me to appreciate the pure divine in sex, the Holy, the cosmic full-body swirling ecstasy of simply being with my-Self, devoted to Me first.
I can’t wait for you to meet, embody, & full express these powerful aspects of your Erotic Feminine & harness their powers for your own erotic empowerment, sexual confidence, & true self-love.
Last February, I opened The Erotic Feminine portal with women from all around the world, connecting with their intentions and excitement to embody more of their erotic power – authentically & without conditions.
I want everyone to remember that your essence, value, love, body, sexiness, desirability, compatibility, [insert thing you feel you lack], is not conditional on someone validating it with a card, or a bunch of flowers, or a proposal… or whatever you’ve been told by society.
I want you, women, to say YES to your bodies, pleasure, sex, because it’s your nature and birth-right. Turning on your erotic energy for empowerment, not because they “should” be doing for someone else.
(if someone else benefits, that’s a bonus, go share your juice with your lover if you feel juicy!)
But I want it to come from YOU first.
Buy the lingerie for YOU – no one else
Rub delicious massage oil on YOU – because YOU like it
Take the selfies for YOU – not because you want the “likes”
Dress up for YOU – not because you “need” to look “sexy”
Seduce YOU – then from that place work your magnetism outwards
The road to erotic empowerment, satiation, and confidence has to start with our inner relationship and if we want to improve a romantic relationship with another, we have to know what it feels like to be totally committed to “ME” first, from the wild and primal, to innocent and divine
And this isn’t a one-night stand, either, it’s a life-long commitment as we are constantly evolving with our bodies, our needs and wants. We can have multiple sexual awakenings in a lifetime – so long as we continue to stay open and curious and not just settle (the worst)…
Are you up for it?
Let’s unlock and embody the deliciously potent energy of your erotic feminine archetypes.
“I devote myself to sensual pleasures, self-intimacy, and honour my erotic innocence.”
“I follow my primal desires, claim what I want, and own my erotic nature.”
“I liberate the taboo, I share my body with intention, and celebrate my erotic expression.”
“I am dark feminine mystery, I turn on desire, and embody erotic magnetism.”
“I connect to the cosmic through the orgasmic and awaken my erotic spirit.”
Channel their energy, learn the language as they move and activate through you, and say yes to your erotic feminine power
—which one feels the most activating?
—which one feels the most resistant?
—which archetype are you most curious to learn more about?
Come & channel these vibes with me in 𝑻𝒉𝒆 𝑬𝒓𝒐𝒕𝒊𝒄 𝑭𝒆𝒎𝒊𝒏𝒊𝒏𝒆 – a sexual revolution for the modern woman. The Erotic Feminine is a self-paced journey to buy any time.
Together we’ll be exploring and embodying five key erotic archetypes and their energies:
Sensual Maiden & Erotic Innocence
Wild Woman & Erotic Nature
Sacred Slut & Erotic Expression
Seductress & Erotic Magnetism
Tantric Queen & Erotic Spirit
The Erotic Feminine is for the woman who wants to ooze sexual confidence, connect more deeply to her sensuality, awaken her primal erotic desires – and not be afraid to speak them!
She wants to embody the Sex Goddess she knows she is, peel away the self-consciousness, and re-ignite her libido.
If you’re ready to unravel layers of shame to step fully up and into your sexual liberation, ask for what you want without fear of rejection, say YES to more pleasure by learning your turn-ons and turn-offs, become magnetic, in life and in the bedroom, look in the mirror and worship your reflection; have hot, fulfilling, toe-tingling sex, and devote yourself to your true erotic expression & sexual desire without guilt or self-judgement – then I suggest you join us…
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