Fetishising the Weird & Wild
The world likes to fetishise the weird & the wild
And so with that, it’s vital that we hold space for everything which doesn’t fall in that category
Without valuing one over the other
Without putting one on a pedestal & the other not
I’m speaking especially into erotic desires & expressions
Whether you like it rough & kinky
Or slow and sensual
To be pinned down & dominated
Or to savour the swirling energetic currents
It’s all worthy
Each & any expression of your sexuality is as valid
There is no one “more advanced” or “more expressed” than the other
One doesn’t show maturation & the other not
What I am constantly reminding my clients is to ease from the comparison of
“he/she’s/they’re kinkier/wilder than I am”
or “but I’m not THERE yet” (wherever “there” is)
or “I really want to be into it but I’m not”
& instead trust that whatever feels good & safe & expansive & wet & juicy for your body and in your partnership(s) then that’s your erotic and pleasure pathway; that’s your blueprint
The Wild Woman always draws more attention that her Sensual sister, we want to express that primal side, & because it is less understood, it’s less embodied in most…. which makes it more desired
This society gets off on kink, we love the subversive and the edgy
We are turned on by what we feel is naughty, but it doesn’t mean we ACTUALLY want to experience it or that it is our own personal truth
I work with womxn who follow their wild wisdom & dark desires intuitively, and it guides them to me and my offerings
Just as much as I work with womxn who are less activated by this part. Sure they know of it & it feels exciting but when they get real with themselves they’re like “actually I’m not into it and that’s ok”
They remember they get to choose the expression of themselves that feels the most authentic
So this is a reminder to you to honour your truth & your sexual essence (& any essence) without feeling like it needs to be changed or updated to “fit in”
If you’re a slow & sensual lover, beautiful, I honour you
If you’re a kinky little bitch, I honour you too
You are you babe & that’s rad AF
I see you
I celebrate you
Doors open for the next round my three month 1:1 mentorship if you’re curious to explore and empower your unique essence – whatever that feels like! – & embody that unapologetically. And it is sooo much more than a journey of sexual liberation – it’s liberation of self! Full expression of self. The erotic part is only one juicy layer….
